When some couples are asked why they seek a divorce, their reason or grounds are pretty specific. For example, one spouse had an affair, or perhaps there is a concern for physical and emotional abuse. But in other situations, neither party can pinpoint one specific act or situation. There is still a reason for the divorce, but all they can say is that their marriage is irretrievably broken.
While irretrievably broken (also known as irreconcilable differences) may sound like a copout and not a legitimate reason a Court would accept, it is quite the opposite. In fact, it is absolutely considered acceptable grounds for divorce in Texas.
But what does that mean exactly? Let’s discuss this in today’s blog post.
Irretrievably Broken — Defined
When a couple says their marriage is irretrievably broken or has irreconcilable differences, they are telling the Court that through no fault of either party, the marriage has reached a point where it cannot be saved.
The husband did not cheat on his wife with another woman.
No one is abusing anyone.
Neither party has engaged in any conduct that would constitute legal grounds for an at-fault divorce. Simply put, they can no longer live in peace together and choose not to be forced to stay together when they do not want to be or should not be together. While it is not possible to file for divorce on the grounds of the marriage being irretrievably broken in every state, it is a sufficient reason for divorce in Texas.
A few examples of what constitutes a marriage being irretrievably broken or spouses that have irreconcilable differences can include:
- Personality conflicts
- Excessive discord or conflict
- Lack of intimacy
- Financial problems
- Political views
- Challenges with family
- Lack of communication
Is It Possible To Save Your “Irretrievably Broken” Marriage?
I realize this is all subject to debate, but at the end of the day, marriage is a covenant relationship in God’s eyes. When we divorce, that is a physical breach of that covenant. So, when we begin looking at divorce as an answer, we should first look at it only as a last resort.
When possible, confession, looking into a person’s heart, forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration should be the first steps we take. As a believer, I counsel my clients to give it 100% before filing for divorce. The lesson here is that if each spouse focuses their time, attention, and talents on improving their relationship with God, it will bring them closer together. If they keep finding fault in each other instead of themselves, it only pushes the other party away.
When you look back on the decision to divorce, ask yourself …
- Did I communicate clearly and specifically with my spouse about why I believe the marriage is over?
- Did I give my spouse time to address these concerns
- Did I fully engage in the attempt to save my marriage?
I call this earning your way out of the marriage.
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